Budget 
A word that strikes fear into the soul of many a consumer.
Take a deep breath and relax. We are going to take a few minutes to talk about this useful tool.
That’s right, I said a tool! Remember folks, the budget doesn’t exist to impose some sort of dictatorship over you, but rather as a TOOL that you use to further your own aims.
A budget, at its most basic, is simply a list of the amount of money going in and out during a set time period. Most people use a month as their basic time frame.
Think of a budget as a plan. Without a plan, we just spend willy nilly. With a plan, we can make thoughtful decisions based on our priorities.
Most people really don’t have any idea of how much money is really coming in and out. They don’t have priorities, they don’t have goals,and they don’t have a plan. This is a problem when you are trying to curb your spending, pay off debt and save money.
We are going to fix that for you in 5 simple steps.
Let’s start with a few things you DO know.
Typical income includes categories such as:
Salary
Alimony/Child Support
Social Security
Retirement Income
Disability Payments
Note: If you have any irregular income, try to guestimate-but keep it a very realistic. I personally would underestimate to be on the safe side.
Step 2: How much money is going out in regular, defined payments?
Make a list of the things you have regular non-fluctuating payments for. The most common are:
Mortage/Rent
Taxes
Utilities
Car Payments
Loan Payments
Health Insurance
Car/Vehicle Insurance
Home Owners or Renters Insurance
Alimony/Child Support
Daycare/After School Care
Tithe
Retirement Savings/Investments
College Savings
Cell Phone Plan
Memberships (Gym etc)
Cable
Internet
There, you are done with the easy part. You have found your total regular income and your total expenses from regular payments. At this point you should still have money left over for your variable expenses.
If you don’t you are in serious trouble-we haven’t even talked about gas & groceries yet!*
Let’s assume after your regular payments you have some income left, and move on to the things you DON’T know.
Groceries
Toiletries/Cleaners & Papergoods
Gas
Vehicle Maintenance
Medical Copays etc
Entertainment
Clothing
Gifts
Office supplies
Classes or Memberships (dance classes, gym memberships)
Charitable Giving
School Supplies
Gardening/Landscaping
Home Maintenance and Repair
Pet Care
Savings
Credit Card Debt
This list will be different for every person, depending on your lifestyle and individual priorities.
Step 4: Assign amounts to your variable expenses.
Once you have your list of variable expenses you can attack it two ways.
Method #1 Write down what you think you spend each month on each of these category. At this point don’t worry about matching up income to expenses, just be realistic about your spending.
Once you have it all listed out, add it up and see how far “off” you are. Then it’s time to “get real”.
Method #2 Come at your expenses from the opposite direction. Knowing the total amount of income you have, decide where you will spend it by dividing it up amongst all the categories. Again, do this with your priorities in mind.
The key to this process, regardless of the method you use, is you MUST be realistic. Unrealistic goals will lead to failure.
If you have a family of 5, $30 isn’t likely to make it as a grocery budget. If you work late 3X a week and don’t know how to cook, $0 for takeout is probably a bad initial goal (although it could be something to work towards). . . On the other hand, if you already have a closet full of clothes, then not spending any money on your wardrobe for a few months is very reasonable. . .
Nothing is perfect! With all the best intentions in the world you still probably forgot to include some expenses, or were unrealistic about your spending.
After the first month, review your budgeted expenses against the actual expenses. Where did they fail to match up?
Sit down and think about it for a while. Was the failure due to unrealistic goals or loose spending on your part? Can you rearrange the money from categories within the budget, or do you need to cut down on your spending somewhere?
There you have it, 5 simple steps to setting up a budget.



 

Great post! I found something that works for me – when I stick to it. I do exactly as your post states, income, expenses, variables. What I do with my variables is give us a reasonable amount of “cash” which took a few weeks of tracking to really figure out. Then we stick to that amount and we track everything we spend each week to be sure we aren’t going over. If we see we’re going to need to (birthday parties/gifts, etc.) one week then we try to tighten our belts a bit more if we can the week(s) before.
Addy Kujawa
@addykujawa
Jenn, great post! I think keeping everything in steps does something to help retain it so I appreciate the 5 steps here. Very informative but not overwhelming!
I personally use an excel spreadsheet to list out all expenses. I then use Microsoft Money for our check ledger. I love the reports I get to show me what categories I’ve spent the most in. It also gives me a nice (sometimes annoying, but helpful) pop-up reminder that says I’ve spent too much in a specific category. I know mint.com does something similar but it’s “live” from my checking and I want to know what’s coming up to post in my checking.
So, I use Money to post an entire month’s expenses a month early. I know how much “extra” is leftover for paying on debt, fun or extra giving.
Again, great post! I’ll be sending people this way!!